The mind of a free thinker.

The mind of a free thinker.

wimey:

i’m made of sarcasm and sexual frustration

Also yes.

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I think one thing you can do to help your friends who are depressed is to reach out to them not in the spirit of helping, but in the spirit of liking them and wanting their company. “I’m here to help if you ever need me” is good to know, but hard to act on, especially when you’re in a dark place. Specific, ongoing, pleasure-based invitations are much easier to absorb. “I’m here. Let’s go to the movies. Or stay in and order takeout and watch some dumb TV.” “I’m having a party, it would be really great if you could come for a little while.” Ask them for help with things you know they are good at and like doing, so there is reciprocity and a way for them to contribute. “Will you come over Sunday and help me clear my closet of unfashionable and unflattering items? I trust your eye.” “Will you read this story I wrote and help me fix the dialogue?” “Want to make dinner together? You chop, I’ll assemble.” “I am going glasses shopping and I need another set of eyes.” Remind yourself why you like this person, and in the process, remind them that they are likable and worth your time and interest.

Talk to the parts of the person that aren’t being eaten by the depression. Make it as easy as possible to make and keep plans, if you have the emotional resources to be the initiator and to meet your friends a little more than halfway. If the person turns down a bunch of invitations in a row because (presumably) they don’t have the energy to be social, respect their autonomy by giving it a month or two and then try again. Keep the invitations simple; “Any chance we could have breakfast Saturday?” > “ARE YOU AVOIDING ME BECAUSE YOU’RE DEPRESSED OR BECAUSE YOU HATE ME I AM ONLY TRYING TO HELP YOU.” “I miss you and I want to see you” > “I’m worried about you.” A depressed person is going to have a shame spiral about how their shame is making them avoid you and how that’s giving them more shame, which is making them avoid you no matter what you do. No need for you to call attention to it. Just keep asking. “I want to see you” “Let’s do this thing.” “If you are feeling low, I understand, and I don’t want to impose on you, but I miss your face. Please come have coffee with me.” “Apology accepted. ApologIES accepted. So. Gelato and Outlander?”

#613: How do I reach out to my friends who have depression? | Captain Awkward

P.S. A lot of people with depression and other mental illnesses have trouble making decisions or choosing from a bunch of different options. “Wanna get dinner at that pizza place on Tuesday night?” is a LOT easier to answer than “So wanna hang out sometime? What do you want to do?”

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So much this…

When I’m at my worst, just being invited to drive with you while you run errands is often enough to keep me from doing a complete downward spiral, but please don’t guilt people for not being able to hang out… It’s the worst feeling of shame for having depression in the first place on top of worrying that you will lose those you love for being a shitty friend.

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石青 | A/Z log1

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deanbreaks:

“Not only is the Universe stranger than we think, it is stranger than we can think.”  ―  Werner Heisenberg
deanbreaks:

“Not only is the Universe stranger than we think, it is stranger than we can think.”  ―  Werner Heisenberg
deanbreaks:

“Not only is the Universe stranger than we think, it is stranger than we can think.”  ―  Werner Heisenberg
deanbreaks:

“Not only is the Universe stranger than we think, it is stranger than we can think.”  ―  Werner Heisenberg

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“Not only is the Universe stranger than we think, it is stranger than we can think.”    Werner Heisenberg

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felitomkinson:

therealbishounen:

afrofilipino:

this is so unfunny like nicki is obviously not happy with this

Pls watch the actual video?????? Also that’s James Franco, an ACTOR. Nicki herself can act. AlsO Seth Rogan is in the video. Just. PLEASE.

what u say: pls check your sources!!
what tumblr understands: ooGABOOGAspaghettibolognESE!!>!
felitomkinson:

therealbishounen:

afrofilipino:

this is so unfunny like nicki is obviously not happy with this

Pls watch the actual video?????? Also that’s James Franco, an ACTOR. Nicki herself can act. AlsO Seth Rogan is in the video. Just. PLEASE.

what u say: pls check your sources!!
what tumblr understands: ooGABOOGAspaghettibolognESE!!>!
felitomkinson:

therealbishounen:

afrofilipino:

this is so unfunny like nicki is obviously not happy with this

Pls watch the actual video?????? Also that’s James Franco, an ACTOR. Nicki herself can act. AlsO Seth Rogan is in the video. Just. PLEASE.

what u say: pls check your sources!!
what tumblr understands: ooGABOOGAspaghettibolognESE!!>!
felitomkinson:

therealbishounen:

afrofilipino:

this is so unfunny like nicki is obviously not happy with this

Pls watch the actual video?????? Also that’s James Franco, an ACTOR. Nicki herself can act. AlsO Seth Rogan is in the video. Just. PLEASE.

what u say: pls check your sources!!
what tumblr understands: ooGABOOGAspaghettibolognESE!!>!

felitomkinson:

therealbishounen:

afrofilipino:

this is so unfunny like nicki is obviously not happy with this

Pls watch the actual video?????? Also that’s James Franco, an ACTOR. Nicki herself can act. AlsO Seth Rogan is in the video. Just. PLEASE.

what u say: pls check your sources!!

what tumblr understands: ooGABOOGAspaghettibolognESE!!>!

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Saturday Night Scribble #1

Saturday Night Scribble #1

Inspired by a random Reddit post I decided to scribble the similar thing too just to find out how I’d feel about it. Without hesitation I wrote down ‘solitude de tristesse’ – a phrase from my old poem I did in French class which seems to fit.

The numbers are just some calculations how much it’d take for me to download 20GB of data. 5 hours it seem…

solitude of sadness

solitude of sadness.

I’m still writing the…

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A photo I took from the famous Shibuya Crossing in Tokyo, Japan
One has to experience this sheer mass of human bodies themselves because it cannot be easily described in a few words because it is unbelievable how many people cross that street from all angles

A photo I took from the famous Shibuya Crossing in Tokyo, Japan

One has to experience this sheer mass of human bodies themselves because it cannot be easily described in a few words because it is unbelievable how many people cross that street from all angles

sonimasadr:

Nichijou
Sakamoto

sonimasadr:

Nichijou

Sakamoto

aetylus:

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